Potty Training Methods That Work!

Potty training is as much as rite of passage for a parent as the toddler. Knowing how to start can be overwhelming for both, however. While there are myriad methods for potty training, here is a primer to the most popular ones, including the pros and cons of each. Once you’ve committed to a method, take heart. It is just a matter of time, and patience, until diapers disappear from your life.

Bare Bum Method
The name tells it all. Pick a time when you’ll be home for several days in a row. This is not a method to take on the road. You’ll be letting junior go commando during all his waking hours. The idea here is that your toddler will be much more inclined to use the toilet when the other option is getting pee all down her legs. Or worse. This method is most likely to work if your child is one who wants changed promptly after filling his diaper.
Pros: Pretty simply to implement and often successful after only a few days. No special equipment, other than possibly protecting your flooring or furniture. If you live in the country, being out in the back yard might be helpful too.
Cons: Your furniture, carpet and other belongings might become rather soiled. Know the best methods for urine/fecal matter stain removal. If it’s not mild or warm weather, you might have a little frozen bum that is not a happy camper.
Readiness Approach
For those who like having expert approval, this method is endorsed by heavyweights such as the American Academy of Pediatrics and specifically famous pediatrician Dr. T. Berry Brazelton. Additionally, this is probably THE most popular approach to potty training in the US currently. With this approach parents wait to start training until the child has shown clear readiness signs such as interest in toileting, ability to follow and understand directions, and talking about going potty. The parent works through stages such as talking with the child about using a potty, introducing the child to the potty, letting the child sit on the potty while clothed and finally actual attempts at using the potty for real. Parents use incentives such as praise, stickers and rewards and avoid any scolding or punishments for mistakes.
Pros: Has the backing of child development experts. Fairly simple to employ.
Cons: Must wait until child is clearly ready, usually not before age 2. May take awhile to fully accomplish complete potty training.
One Day Method
This was first introduced back in the early 1970s but has been brought back into popularity by Dr. Phil McGraw, and is also known as the modeling approach. The parent spends an entire day potty focused with the child. All interaction and conversation on this day revolve around toileting. The parent will discuss their big plans for the day. Props are required, such as a doll that drinks and wets, a potty chair and lots of liquids. The child is given lots to drink ensuring plenty of practice with getting to the potty on time. The doll is given a drink then put on the potty chair to wet. Then the potty chair is emptied into the toilet. The doll is praised for its success. Then the child gets to practice going potty too. If the child has an accident he or she gets some extra practice. Parents can make the path to the potty a race to increase the fun factor.
Pros: Time. You have a dedicated day to the process and then should experience overall success with potty training. Works with all types of personality types.
Cons: You can’t do the potty day halfheartedly. You must dedicate a full day and not slack. If your child isn’t ready, it won’t be successful however.
The Infant Training Method
This method sounds a bit off the wall to most people in North America but is used widely around the world, especially where disposable diapers are unavailable or hard to find. Basically, you take the child, often an infant rather than a toddler, to the toilet and hold them over it every 30 minutes. This teaches a child to associate elimination and urination with the toilet. Additionally, the mother/parent must also be aware of the subtle signs that the child needs to use the potty, or the typical toileting patterns.
Pros: May achieve potty training success at much earlier age than other methods. Reduced disposable diapers/laundry costs, less diaper rash or skin issues from wetness, and no special equipment.
Cons: Very time consuming and if both parents work outside the home, it’ll be all but impossible to implement. If you don’t use disposable diapers, you may have some extra laundry.

How to Handle Mommy Stress

While being a mother likely consumed your thoughts and dreams for months or even years prior to your baby's birth, reality can be jarring at times. Yes, you knew it would be hard and you relished the idea of the challenge because of all the joys associated with parenting a new little baby.

However, no one can really prepare you for the realities of sleep deprivation, lack of hygiene, loss of personal identity and the crushing isolation that often accompanies new moms. Even if you can get one of the above, it's unlikely to feel too mood-boosting. After all, how great is a shower when no one is likely to smell you for days. Or how much socializing do you desire when you are so brain-dead from days of little sleep that your communication skills are reduced to nearly inaudible grunts?
So how to deal is the question. First, find comfort in the universality of your stressed-out new mommydom. Every mom experiences the stress and blues of becoming a parent. However, many times moms cover up their exhaustion and fear with a plastic smile and coos at their little darling.
Get Back-Up

Don't go it alone. If you are a full time mom, make sure your partner knows how much help you need and do be specific. Don't just say, “I can't do it all!” instead try suggesting, “If you could throw a load of laundry into the washer before leaving for work, that would really help me out.”
Have a support system particularly of experienced mothers, your own if workable, or borrow someone else. They can be great at telling you not to worry, and that things will work out because they have proof (in you!) that they will. They may not be up to date on the latest child rearing techniques or immunizations, however. But the trade off is still worthwhile.
Besides experienced moms, reach out to others in the trenches, new moms like you. Some rec centers, churches or community groups have new mother's groups where you can go and commiserate, encourage and maybe even relax for a bit. Relationships can grow from those connections and can be invaluable to a new mom, especially if she lacks a family support system in the area.
Making Peace

You have to carve out little moments of non-stress in your life. Get a bubble bath when your partner spends some one-on-one time with baby. Read a book during baby's nap. When you run out for diapers, grab one of those fifteen minute massages at a kiosk, or just buy yourself a magazine or a treat from the smoothie stand.
Learn some simple yoga or relaxation stretches and do those when you get up or get ready for bed. Even a few minutes of deep breathing can provide some calmness into your day.
Taking Care

If you don't take good care of you, you'll be less than able to care for your loved ones especially a demanding baby. So buy good food and eat well, do whatever you can to get some quality sleep whenever possible, and get moving. Exercise will help your body return to normal or better status, and will help you feel better mentally and emotionally as well. Plus exercise is something you can do with your baby. Take a walk with your little one and both of you can enjoy some fresh air and new scenery.
Connect with Loved Ones

If you have a partner, you two still need time to be just you two. Get a sitter regularly and get away from it all together, even if it's only an hour or two a week the benefits are huge. Plus you'll be less likely to feel as isolated and stressed out.
Also, don't forget your old friends particularly those without kids in tow. Sometimes our relationships become all about the baby. That's not necessarily healthy, and your old friends most likely miss you. It's nice to be an individual once in awhile and not just someones mommy or milk-holder.
When the Stress is Too Much

Some babies are more demanding than others, and some mothering situations are more difficult due to health, financial or other factors. If the stress is overwhelming you and you no longer feel like you can cope you should seek out help. When you can't function normally, feel excessively stressed or depressed most days, and the blues are just not lifting talk to your doctor. Hormones and lifestyle changes can wreak havoc on the strongest of people and it is perfectly OK to admit you need some help right now.

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